Cliffs Notes: Reframing a gross narrative about craving "power" and "strength" at the expense of others' comfort and safety; "weakness" not being inherently bad; moving past fairytales; the beauty of embracing the gray; ~*~*stop the tape to write down three of your own strengths and weaknesses~*~*; turning our own "strengths" and "weaknesses" on their heads, and encouraging our listeners to do the same.